2 Keys to Unleashing Your Inner Confidence

Alright, let’s cut to the chase. After years of guiding people to their best selves, one truth keeps shining through: inner confidence is *everything*. This isn’t just some feel-good pep talk—it’s the foundation that everything else rests on. So if you’re ready to stop feeling like life’s happening *to* you and start owning your power, let’s dive into the two key strategies that will unlock the confident warrior within you.

1. Know Your Values

I know, you’ve probably heard about “values” a million times before. But let me tell you why I keep bringing them up (and I won’t stop—because they’re *that* important). Think of your values as your personal compass, guiding every decision, every emotion, and every reaction. They’re what keeps you grounded when life throws curveballs.

Ever felt that gut-punch when something just doesn’t sit right, or that high when you’re totally in your zone? That’s your values speaking up. When you live in alignment with them, life flows. When you don’t? It’s like trying to sail without a map. Your values are the essence of who you are—unshakeable, untouchable, 100% yours. Own them, honor them, and you’ll find that unshakable confidence starts to bloom. It’s like finding your inner GPS that’s been on silent mode for far too long. Time to turn the volume up!

2. Flex the Confidence Muscle

Here’s the deal: confidence is a muscle. And like any muscle, if you don’t use it, it’ll weaken. But don’t worry—building it back up is totally doable. The secret? You’ve gotta get uncomfortable. I’m talking stepping out of that cozy comfort zone that feels safe but keeps you stuck. Growth lives on the edge of discomfort, and confidence grows right along with it.

Ever notice how the more you try new things, even the scary ones, the easier it gets? Each risk, big or small, flexes that confidence muscle. And just like your body gets stronger with each workout, so does your self-assurance. You *can* handle more than you think. So, go ahead—challenge yourself, take those leaps, and watch how quickly you start to radiate a whole new level of badass confidence.

The Wrap-Up

Here’s the truth: You already have everything you need inside of you. Your values are your foundation, and confidence is the muscle you get to build. The world needs *your* magic, not some watered-down version of you playing small. So, get out there, align with your values, take those leaps, and show the world what you’re made of.

Ready to boost your confidence and live in alignment with your values? Let’s Make Shift Happen.

Top 5 Books to Boost Confidence:

1. The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown
2. Daring Greatly by Brené Brown
3. The Confidence Code by Katty Kay & Claire Shipman
4. You Are a Badass by Jen Sincero
5. Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach  

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